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Mind Over Matter?

  © Jo Holness, 2004

 

(Definition taken from www.dictionary.com):

Conjecture: Inference or judgment based on inconclusive or incomplete evidence; guesswork.

The brain. For such a complex organ that contains over 100 billion cells, we still know relatively little about just what these 3 lbs of grey stuff is really capable of. I feel a little biology lesson is in order before we proceed. Bear with me. The brain really is interesting stuff!

Primarily, the brain is an electro-chemical piece of equipment. It consists mainly of neurons, which are simply on/off switches, much like a regular household light switch. In the “on” state, neurons fire little electrical impulses along what are called axons (imagine axons as wires). At the end of each axon are tiny fibres that shoot out chemicals across a gap called a synapse towards the adjacent neuron. It is in this manner that electrical impulses are transported throughout the brain across vast neural networks. These chemicals are called “transmitters” and different neurons use different chemical transmitters. Some of the more widely known transmitters are dopamine (an inhibitor that dampens activity and has a varied role within the body), serotonin (our “happy” chemical – often in deficit amongst people with depression) and phenylethylamine (a chemical that plays a critical role in the limbic system, known to give a feeling of bliss. It is a natural ingredient in chocolate).

Quite often, the brain is compared to that of a huge super-computer. This isn’t strictly correct. Think of it in terms of an orchestra made up of lots of different musical sections. Each section has its’ own contribution to the piece being played, and all sections are dependent on the conductor to keep good time so that the music flows in tune and at the right pace. However, if one section hasn’t practised adequately enough, the entire sound might sound a little off key or out of sync at certain times. This is a much closer analogy of how the brain works.

Process and interpretation:

Much of the information that enters the brain traverses up through the spinal cord. Except for vision and hearing. These enter the brain directly via our eyes and ears respectively. Our brains are composed of two halves – the left and the right hemisphere. The left side tends to be the analytical part – the one that places interpretations on what we have sensed, felt, heard etc processed by the right side.

Eg. The right side will tell you that you have seen a woman, the left side will interpret that and analyse it to tell you that woman is Auntie Mabel.

Now, what happens when one side of the brain is injured in anyway? Well, if it’s the right hemisphere, people often lose the ability to “put things together” and process important information. Quite often, these people go into “denial syndrome”, simply because they don’t even realise there is a problem. A case example of this I found on the Internet follows:

“For example, I treated a person with an injury to the right side of the brain--specifically, the back part of the right brain that deals with visual information--and he lost half of his vision. Because the right side of the brain was injured, it failed to "collect" information, so the brain did not realize that something was missing. Essentially, this person was blind on one side but did not know it. What was scary was that this person had driven his car to my office. After seeing the results of the tests that I gave him, I asked, "Do you have a lot of dents on the left side of your car?" He was amazed that I magically knew this without seeing his car. Unfortunately, I had to ask him not to drive until his problems got better. But you can see how the right side puts things together.” - Dr. Glen Johnson 1998.

The left side deals more with language and analysing. If this side is damaged, chances are you will be aware of it (because your right side has processed that there is a problem), but you will be unable to solve complex problems or complete complex activities. In many cases this often leads to depression, organisational and communication problems.

Vision and the brain:

All information received from the eyes goes to a part directly at the back of the brain, which is why sometimes when someone receives a blow to the back of the head, it can cause visual impairment either temporarily or permanently. Each hemisphere processes half the visual information received, but from opposite sides. Information received by the right eye is processed by the left hemisphere and vice versa with the left eye and the right hemisphere.

Hearing and language:

For right-handed people, the dominant side of the brain is the left hemisphere. In left-handed people, the right side is dominant. It is the left temporal lobe that processes and determines our ability to hear, and to process and express language. Certain areas of the temporal lobe deals with the simple basic stuff (“I hear a noise”) and others deal with the more complex analysis of sounds (“I hear a noise that sounds like Uncle Fred’s voice”). The right temporal lobe also deals with hearing, but pertaining to music – hence if this area is damaged one is likely to be unable to appreciate music or be able to sing.

Vision and hearing parts of the brain have overlapping areas. It is these areas that do the “reading” – converting visual images into sounds. Dyslexia occurs when this area is damaged in some way.

Touch and skin sensation:

The tactile area of the brain deals with physical sensations. As touch and movement are closely related, both areas of the brain that process this information are next to each other. It is therefore not uncommon for people with injuries in these parts to lose both movement and feeling in the affected parts of the body. As with vision, the left side of the brain processes tactile information received on the right side of the body, and the right hemisphere processes that on the left side of the body.

Frontal lobe:

The frontal lobe is the part of the brain that deals with planning, organisation and control. Problems in this area can lead to difficulties in doing tasks that require multiple steps, lack of motivation, inability to follow a planned sequence of events or steps and the ability itself of organisation. Additionally, it is the frontal lobe that is responsible for controlling our emotions. Deep in the centre of the brain is an area that controls our most primitive emotions such as hunger, aggression and sexual drive. Generally speaking, this area of the frontal lobe has a stop or no function. When your emotions are driving you to smack that annoying person, it is your frontal lobe that says “Hey, wait a sec. Stop. You will get into trouble for that!”. It is the failure of the frontal lobe that leads to irrational and hysterical emotional behaviour. On the flip side, because the frontal lobe is also responsible for planning, when an injury to it leads to someone being less aggressive, one may find that the person has also become less motivated. Some emotions require planning and organisation – it is your frontal lobe that does this for you.

OK, so that’s the biology lesson over – how does that relate to the paranormal?

So far, I have explained very briefly how electrical impulses are transmitted along the neurons of the brain, and how the brain is responsible for processing the information it receives via the senses. I’ve also touched on how damage to the delicate cells of the brain can lead to false interpretations of the information that is input. When I use the word damage, I don’t want to conjure up the image of someone straight out of “One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest”.

In this context, I want the reader to interpret “damage” as anything from a mild chemical imbalance or hormonal imbalance (such as experienced during the menstrual cycle or as a result of illness or medication) within the brain, to any common experience of illness or injury to any of the 5 sensory organs (eyes, ears, nose, tongue and skin).

Now, into the equation add external factors such as weather conditions – cold numbing the skin, fog or darkness impeding sight, trees or buildings resonating and distorting sounds, virii and bacteria causing colds that dampen or temporarily remove our sense of smell and taste.

And just for good measure, throw in the hundreds of psychological and mental states that we humans experience throughout our lives at any given moment in time. Let’s not also forget memories and sense-association shoving their 2 pennies worth in.

All in all, we get a considerable number of variables that each in their own way can distort the “real” information gathered by the brain into what is generated as the “perceived” output. Amazing, isn’t it? Is it hardly surprising then, that given all these things that are going on during any one moment in time, consciously and sub-consciously, that quite often our brain gets scrambled and misinterprets what may be perfectly “regular” and explainable occurrences as “paranormal”?

And we don’t even realise these processes are going on for the most part!

Ahh, but….. what about interaction with these “ghosts”?

Well, let’s go back to the temporal lobes for a moment. If one was to take a metal probe and charge a little electrical current through it, then apply the probe to the “primary” area of the left temporal lobe (remember, this applies to right-handed folk in this example), the person on the receiving end of the probe would hear a “tone”. If one then moves the probe to a more complex area of the same lobe, the person would hear a “word”. And further still, on an even more complex area still, the person would not only hear words, but also would interpret those words and form associations with them to a particular person (in the paranormal instance, the “spirit” being allegedly sensed or “spoken” to at that point in time). What if this reaction could be reproduced in some way by natural electrical energy in the atmosphere and picked up upon by those whose temporal lobes are more sensitive and developed than most folks? That is to say, those we consider “psychics” or “mediums”? Complete this scenario with the element of anticipation and expectation, and a little bit of personal characterisation to boot, and I believe this to be a classic “talking to spirits” scenario.

Oh right – but what about the dreaded “Ouija board” then?

Ahh! The wonderfully misunderstood Ouija! This is one of my favourite subjects of discussion. First of all, I have to say that, in my opinion the Ouija board is nothing spookier than a bit of wood with letters and numbers on it. Those who think that the board itself is “evil” in some way really ought to apply the same logic to just about anything with letters or numbers on it. My bathroom door with the plaque that reads  “Abandon hope all ye who enter!” has more evil lurking behind it than a piece of 2 by 2 covered in fancy script. Especially after a good night out and a particularly exotic curry the evening before.

I have already written an article about the history of the Ouija board and why it has such a spooky aura of mystery about it, so I won’t repeat myself here. But I will mention the “ideomotor” effect.

(Definition taken from skeptic.com):

Ideomotor: The ideomotor effect refers to the influence of suggestion on involuntary and unconscious motor behaviour. William B. Carpenter coined the term “ideomotor action” in 1852 in his explanation for the movements of rods and pendulums by dowsers, and some table turning or lifting by spirit mediums (the ones that weren't accomplished by cheating). Carpenter argued that muscular movement can be initiated by the mind independently of volition or emotions. We may not be aware of it, but suggestions can be made to the mind by others or by observations. Those suggestions can influence the mind and affect motor behaviour.

Scientific tests by American psychologist William James, French chemist Michel Chevreul, English scientist Michael Faraday, and American psychologist Ray Hyman have demonstrated that many phenomena attributed to spiritual or paranormal forces, or to mysterious "energies," are actually due to ideomotor action. Furthermore, these tests demonstrate that "honest, intelligent people can unconsciously engage in muscular activity that is consistent with their expectations" (Hyman 1999). They also show that suggestions that can guide behavior can be given by subtle clues (Hyman 1977).

The movement of pointers on Ouija boards, of a facilitator's hands in facilitated communication, of hands and arms in applied kinesiology, and of some behaviors attributed to hypnotic suggestion, are due to ideomotor action.

Oh yes, but what about those who aren’t even touching the planchette?

I hear this often from those who are putting across their argument for the Ouija being a tool for paranormal communication with the dead. I’ve already explained how electrical impulses jump across neurons to produce thoughts and actions. Consider wireless technology, for a moment. I’m no expert in the field at all, but if we have developed a way of harnessing electrical power and focussing it towards a specific receptor, as a species whose combined brain power in terms of electrical impulses is akin to the output of a 60 watt bulb, would it not be feasible or even probable that on some unconscious level we can use our own “internal generator” to do the same with the likes of planchettes and other objects (eg. via telekinesis or “poltergeist” activity)?

Ponder the points I have mentioned regarding brain activity that goes on every single second of our lives unnoticed by ourselves. In an environment where these activities are heightened by expectation and excitement, and possibly enhanced by natural external stimuli too (storms, water, power units in the area – all of which have their own electro-magnetic fields much stronger than ours), in my opinion it is perfectly reasonable to theorise that those whose brains are more developed in certain areas (the alleged “psychics”) can in some way channel that innate energy towards something else without even realising it or having to be physically bonded with the object.

In summary, whilst I sincerely doubt the “paranormality” of any the events I have referred to, I do find the possibilities of what I have presented fascinating on a scientific level whilst retaining some level of mysticism. After all, until science and technology proves me right or wrong, it’s all pure conjecture on my part.

~Jo Holness

17th July 2004

 

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Life

Life, God, the Universe and Mr Kipling…

 © Jo Holness, 2004

(Definitions taken from www.dictionary.com)

Belief: Assent to a proposition or affirmation, or the acceptance of a fact, opinion, or assertion as real or true, without immediate personal knowledge; reliance upon word or testimony; partial or full assurance without positive knowledge or absolute certainty; persuasion; conviction; confidence; as, belief of a witness; the belief of our senses.

Fact: Knowledge or information based on real occurrences. Something demonstrated to exist or known to have existed. Something that has actual existence. A statement or assertion of verified information about something that is the case or has happened.

Hypothesis: A tentative explanation for an observation, phenomenon, or scientific problem that can be tested by further investigation.

“An hypothesis being a mere supposition, there are no other limits to hypotheses than those of the human imagination.” --J. S. Mill.

Theory: A belief or principle that guides action or assists comprehension or judgment. An assumption based on limited information or knowledge; a conjecture.

Soul: The disembodied spirit of a dead human. The spiritual nature of humans, regarded as immortal, separable from the body at death, and susceptible to happiness or misery in a future state.

I’ve always had a problem trying to get my beliefs and ideas down in writing. Inside my head they make perfect sense to me. On paper they read as a very jumbled mish-mash of words seemingly with no sense of direction. However, here goes. Please read this article bearing in mind that I have no desire to justify myself to anyone. I don't need (or expect) anyone to agree with me, I do, however, need the reader to understand the points I am trying to make. So if you have any questions or are unclear about said points, please do feel free to e-mail me. I would also like to point out at this stage that my beliefs and theories are always subject to a continuous process of re-evaluation and adaptation. Such is the freedom of personal development and growth.

Let’s begin with what I don’t believe in.

Do I believe in “ghosts”? Essentially the answer would have to be “no”. I don’t believe in the afterlife in the traditionally accepted meaning of the word. I don’t believe in “God” or any supreme being or deity, whatever name one gives it.

Do I believe in the “soul”? Again, essentially the answer at first glance is “no”. When I hear the word “soul”, it conjures up all kinds of associations with various religious dogmas and tenets. Throughout the centuries, religions have bombarded the populous with the idea that there is “ever-lasting life” beyond this mortal coil provided one submits to their particular brand of beliefs and traditions. Not to do so would condemn one to an afterlife of hell and damnation. Well, forgive me for sounding sceptical, but this idea smacks of control of free thought via playing on people’s fears of the unknown. 

Which in turn leads me to ask myself, why do people in general, fear the unknown? Does this fear create a need in us as humans to hold on to comforting thoughts that when we die we “aren’t really dead” and so the belief in ghosts and spirits arises? Is this simply a mass manifestation of our collective denial of death as the final stage of our life? And if so, why is that thought so scary?

I’m scared of dying. No doubt about that. I don’t want to stop being “me”. But, I cannot accept that once my physical bodily functions are over, my metabolic reactions end and my neural networks grind to a halt, that the “essence” that is “Jo” survives. Simply because I believe that it is my brain that makes me, me. It is my brain and the electrical impulses that produce thought patterns, memories and sub-conscious behavioural patterns along with life experiences that make me the person I am. Once those impulses are stopped (by death), the person that was me no longer exists in the same state as it did when alive.

So, OK, what do I think does happen then, after death?

We are beings of electro-biochemical structure. Molecules, atoms and processes that are driven by what we call “energy”. Energy is easily demonstrated and proven by simply plugging in a hairdryer and watching the internal fan move, for example. That energy exists is an indisputable fact. Even the earth has it’s own “energy” – its’ electro-magnetic field, which is measurable by the grace of modern science and technical equipment such as EMF meters.

I believe that when we die, we simply alter states of energy. The energy that held together the physical body (eg. energy that bonded atoms together to form skin, energy that drove metabolic processes such as cellular respiration and energy that provided the neural “oomph” to create thoughts and memories) will be released back into the natural electro-magnetic field of the earth to be available for use elsewhere. Think of water and when it boils how the H2O alters it’s molecular state into steam, which may then be dispersed into the atmosphere. It’s still there, as H2O, but we just can’t see that particular state of existence. And going one step further, when something has been altered, it no longer retains the exact same qualities as it held previously (water doesn't "feel" or "look" like steam). Therefore how can we retain any semblance of who we "were" on a sentient level once we die?

So how does this tie up with the paranormal?

I believe that when we “experience” paranormal events, it could be possibly one of two things.

Firstly, I fully accept that, much like video or tape recordings, it is wholly possible that some of our “energy” may be stored like a recording within the environment – trapped energy, if you like. “Ahhh but,” I hear you shout, “What about “ghosts” that allegedly interact with the likes of mediums and psychics?” Good point! And one I will get to presently.

Following on from this first theory I hold is that those who claim to be psychic are, on some level, able to “tap into” this trapped energy much more easily than those of us who don’t appear to have psychic abilities. It is generally accepted by the scientific world that we do not know even a fraction of how the mind really works. What if psychics have unknowingly found a way to release that elusive process of recognition? Let me insert an analogy here to clarify my theory:

Small transistor radios (in this case represents the non-psychics) are able to pick up only wavelengths of "ABC" MHz (the accepted normal parameters of sensory perception). Larger radios with bigger aerials (the psychics) are not only able to pick up "ABC" MHz, but can also expand onto "D" through to "K" MHz. And there are some even BIGGER radios (the likes of Derek Acorah, Colin Fry et al*) that claim to be able to tune into not only "ABC" and "D" through to "K", but the entire "A to Z" range of MHz. But, because once you traverse past point "C", the wavelengths are of a frequency outside normal hearing range, we can only take the word of those “picking up” on them that this is what is happening because at this point in our scientific development, we simply don’t have the technology to experiment and prove conclusively one way or another.

(*I am not endorsing or dismissing the claims of these two TV psychics as being genuine or otherwise, merely using their names to clarify my example.)

Secondly, the brain. Numerous experiments have been done that prove without a doubt that the brain can be fooled into making us believe that we are seeing, hearing, smelling and feeling things that simply are not what they really are.

Smelling, for example (taken from www.nidcd.nih.gov):

The sense of smell is part of our chemical sensing system, or the chemosenses. Sensory cells in our nose, mouth, and throat have a role in helping us interpret smells, as well as taste flavors. Microscopic molecules released by the substances around us (foods, flowers, etc.) stimulate these sensory cells. Once the cells detect the molecules they send messages to our brains, where we identify the smell.

Olfactory, or smell nerve cells, are stimulated by the odors around us--the fragrance of a gardenia or the smell of bread baking. These nerve cells are found in a small patch of tissue high inside the nose, and they connect directly to the brain. Our sense of smell is also influenced by something called the common chemical sense. This sense involves nerve endings in our eyes, nose, mouth, and throat, especially those on moist surfaces. Beyond smell and taste, these nerve endings help us sense the feelings stimulated by different substances, such as the eye-watering potency of an onion or the refreshing cool of peppermint.

It's a surprise to many people to learn that flavors are recognized mainly through the sense of smell. Along with texture, temperature, and the sensations from the common chemical sense, the perception of flavor comes from a combination of odors and taste. Without the olfactory cells, familiar flavors like coffee or oranges would be harder to distinguish.”

The key part here for me is the last paragraph. It highlights that one particular sense is dependent on several other senses and many variables, of which any can alter the perception of what is really being sensed by the nose (in this example). And I believe one can apply that to any of our senses, not just the sense of smell, including alleged “psychic” senses.

Which now brings me back to the interaction question several paragraphs ago. Assuming the line of thinking that psychics are simply “tapping into” this natural energy force, trapped in the same way that video images are held on tape, by using some method of brain process that science has yet to explain adequately or conclusively, what is to say that the manner in which these “forces” is interpreted is dependent entirely upon the perception of the receptor? If the receptor, (the psychic), interprets this energy as your Great Auntie Mabel, isn’t it possible that there will be certain expectations and assumptions on perhaps a sub-conscious level that the psychic isn’t even aware of, that will lead to certain “revelations” by said “Auntie Mabel” which, for many, will serve to reinforce their already willingness to believe this is really a “spirit” of said loved one coming back from the “other side” to talk to them?

I firmly hold the belief that psychology is a much under-rated factor in the paranormal field. Whilst I see many people cry “Ah yes, I will look for the practical and logical explanation first before believing something is paranormal”, in practise this is rarely the case. Bottom line is, people WANT to believe in the paranormal, for reasons that only an in-depth psychological analysis could shed light upon, but they also want to retain some semblance of credibility by claiming that they are open to logical and rational explanations.

In summary, I can’t say for sure if what I believe is correct or not. Only time and the advancement of science will enable me to turn this theory into a hypothesis. I can only present my theory, which I have come to based on my limited research of psychology, biology and personal experience with the element of any “religion-based” concepts removed.

So why the reference to Mr Kipling in the title?

Well, the statement from the TV advert is that “Mr Kipling makes exceedingly good cakes”.

Fact, belief, hypothesis OR theory?

YOU decide! ;)

 

~Jo Holness

17th July 2004

 

 

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The history of the Ouija

The history of the "Ouija" board

 

In 1848, Hydesville, New York, two sisters – Kate and Margaret Fox – made contact with the spirit of a deceased peddler. This sparked off a revolutionary obsession across the U.S. and Europe in modern spiritualism.

Spiritual churches began forming en masse and anyone deemed "gifted" in the ability to contact the dead was given the title of "medium". A variety of methods were invented to allow communication with spirits that initially included table turning (or tilting) and spirit writing.

Table turning involved a medium and sitters placing their fingers lightly on a table to await spirit contact. The table would then rock back and forth, knocking on the floor to letters called from the alphabet, or to yes and no questions. Unfortunately, this form of communication was time consuming, and the chore of interpreting knocks became boring as the novelty wore off during the course of the sitting.

Spirit writing involved placing ones fingers over a small basket with a pencil attached to one end. It is alleged that the basket went on to evolve into a heart-shaped "planchette" by a French medium, M. Planchette. This is highly questionable though, as the word "planchette" derives from the French for "little plank".

Although this method was less noisy than its table turning counterpart, it was still very difficult to keep the planchette centred on the paper, and often the written messages were indecipherable.

Many mediums dispensed with the planchette altogether and developed what we now call "trance mediumship". Others preferred to hold the pencil directly in their own hands to allow "automatic writing" to channel through. There were a few, however, who considered it important in this field of interest to use the "correct" equipment. Thus, the dial plates, or psychographs, were developed.

These were huge, cumbersome items with strange alphanumeric gadgets on large tables with moving needles and wheels. The expense involved with dial plates lead to their decline in usage, but shortly after the planchette arrived in the U.S., a cabinet and coffin maker from Maryland, E. C. Reiche, created a wooden lap tray with alphabet and numbers, and yes and no in each lower corner. He modified the planchette by removing the pencil and adding small wooden pegs underneath it, allowing it to move freely over the board.

Reiche named the board "Ouija", incorrectly believing the name to be the Egyptian word for luck. As the claim was made after a spirit allegedly told him during a contact session, the name was adopted for this tool.

Reiche had little interest in making money from his invention. He sold the idea to his friend, Charles Kennard, founder of the Kennard Novelty Co. Kennard began producing commercial Ouija boards in 1886 and on May 28th 1890, Charles Kennard and William H. A. Maupin filed the first patent for a "talking board".

Not long after this, William Fuld, who was Kennard’s shop manager at the time, forced Kennard out of the business and renamed the company to the "Ouija Novelty Co.". He produced and successfully marketed the "Fuld’s Talking Board". After 35 profitable years, Fuld’s business suffered a small slump in sales, and in 1927 Fuld was alleged to have committed suicide. His death was more than likely accidental, but the rumours gave the Ouija board a slightly eerie taint in reputation.

In 1966, Fuld’s heirs sold the company to Parker Brothers, an established toy and board games company. Parker Brothers still hold all the trademarks and patents to the board today, and the Ouija board is still as popular as ever.

Much of the bad press surrounding Ouija boards is credited to media sensationalism. The board requires no special talent to use, and its esoteric reputation attracts many young people into "dabbling" with contacting the dead. Although there is no evidence to suggest using the Ouija board can cause problems with "unfriendly spirits" attaching themselves to the sitters, it is perhaps worth mentioning the psychological effects the board can have on those whose minds are more susceptible to the power of suggestion. For this reason alone, it is recommended that the board be used only with the presence and guidance of experienced sitters.

It has also been suggested that the planchette does not move because of any "spirit" activity, but rather due to the power of the mind of the sitters. In other words, by the use of psychokinesis. This in itself is "paranormal", and is also worthy of investigation.

On the whole, it is my personal belief that the Ouija board is no more problematic than any other form of channeling spirits. As with all tools, it is the operation of the users that determines the output and results. My advice to anyone considering using the Ouija board who is a little unsure about it, would be first of all to employ the help of person(s) experienced in using one, and secondly, use some form of mental self protection. The psychology behind this can go a long way in alleviating any "fears" of repercussions from using a board. The Ouija board is not a toy, and should be used with respect. But nor is it some "evil spirit-attracting" tool! The Ouija board should simply be regarded as a method of attempting to communicate with spirits, and can be employed as part of any paranormal investigation with some potentially interesting results.

~ Jo Holness © 2003



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The history of Handfastings

 

Today, there is often a general romanticism associated with the idea of being hand fasted. As paganism continues to grow in modern society, there seems an increasing need to perform “some kind of significant ceremony” that disassociates itself from the legal imposition of civil or church-lead ceremonies. A handfasting does just that. It defines the importance of pagan ceremonies being recognised by their followers as just as valid and binding as any government or canonical ceremony. After all, other belief systems have legally recognised ceremonies (Christian, Buddhist, Hindus, Sikh etc), so why not for paganism? But is this the real intent and origin of handfastings?

Originally, handfastings were not exclusively associated with what we identify as modern-day paganism. The term “pagan” merely defined those not of the Roman Catholic belief, which was the religion of the day in medieval times. Interestingly the concept of what constituted a “marriage” was vastly different in the late middle ages than today. Marriage was based on the exchange of consent. Either the consent was in the present here and now (“I take you to be my husband/wife”) or consent was promised in the future followed by sexual intercourse based on that promise (sex was deemed to be a present consent, therefore as such, made a marriage).

For either of the above to be held as a marriage, witnesses were not required. In fact, witnesses merely made it easier to prove such consent had taken place. Nor was the presence of an officiating priest required either. Advance banns, blessings nor consummation entered into the validity of a marriage. It was a purely consensual agreement between the two people involved.

Strangely enough, the “consent” theory of marriage derived from the Roman Catholic Church itself. Previous to around the 1200, marriages were only deemed valid if there was parental consent and consummation. In Scotland, there was also another type of marriage – that of habit and repute. If a couple had been living together as married and presented themselves as married, they were deemed to have a valid marriage. This was more for existing “marriages” (as proof of marriage) rather than for the creation of “new” marriages. In a society whereby proof may have been required for consent to marriage, this provided an excellent resource to validate existing unions. As it stood, the only real way to annul a marriage in those days was to prove that no real marriage had occurred: e.g. if either or both of the parties were too young (12 years old for women and 14 for men – however, if when the parties came of age they continued to live together as married, this would validate the marriage from then on), insane at the time of the marriage, too closely related, already married or impotent at the time of the marriage – although there are no details that I could find of how that could be proven!

From around the 13th Century, marriage ceremonies began to change. Although all that was necessary for a marriage to be valid was still only consent, periods of betrothal, announcements of banns, official ceremonies conducted by clergy and then the start of living together began to be incorporated within the entire “marriage” package. This seems to have been because although the Roman Catholic Church deemed consensual marriages as valid, they were against the clandestine nature that some of these marriages took on. The church deemed it “proper” that marriages ought to be a ceremonial affair with the clergy present and witnesses.

So why did people choose clandestine marriages as opposed to open ceremonial affairs? Well, history suggests that it wasn’t for the lack of priests to conduct the ceremonies. In fact, many of the reasons seem just as valid today for those who want a “quickie” wedding: it was quick, easy, cheap, less chance of anyone raising objections, and of course, easier to deny should one of the parties want out!

In 1563, Roman Catholic canon law changed, and for catholic countries the simple exchange of present consent no longer validated a marriage. It is interesting to note that Scotland was one of the few countries where consensual marriage remained for a long time after these changes. In fact, it was only in the 18th century that future consent followed by sex marriages were deemed invalid, and as late as 1939 that all previous basic marriage civil laws were changed.

Betrothals in late medieval times were more akin to what we view as handfastings today. Betrothals in those times were a much more formal and significant event than “engagements” are considered today. They were the promise of exchange of future consents and set the ground rules for the contracts of the marriage that was being promised.

The origins of this ceremonial event are explained by A.E. Anton:

“Among the people who came to inhabit Northumbria and the Lothians, as well as among other Germanic peoples, the nuptials were completed in two distinct phases. There was first the betrothal ceremony and later the giving-away of the wife to the husband. The betrothal ceremony was called the beweddung in Anglo-Saxon because in it the future husband gave weds or sureties to the woman's relatives, initially for payment to them of a suitable price for his bride but later for payment to her of suitable dower and morning-gift. The parties plighted their troth and the contract was sealed, like any other contract, by a hand-shake. This joining of hands was called a handfæstung in Anglo-Saxon, and the same word is found in different forms in the German, Swedish and Danish languages. In each it means a pledge by the giving of the hand. ....” (Anton, A. E. "'Handfasting' in Scotland." The Scottish Historical Review 37, no. 124 (October 1958): 89-102.)

If a betrothed couple had sex on the basis of that betrothal or handfasting, they were no longer betrothed, but actually married – legally and bindingly for life. A betrothal didn’t necessarily result in a marriage, but only if there had not been any sexual intercourse between the two parties. If there was, they were married! However, in those cases the church insisted on a formal marriage ceremony to be conducted despite legally being considered already married.

The strange thing about modern day handfastings with the idea of being “married for a year and a day” is that the origins of this belief cannot be traced back beyond the 18th century. In fact, this myth appears to have stemmed from Thomas Pennant, in his document “Tour of Scotland” written in 1790 recounting his tour of 1772. Pennant was ignorant of the fact that clergy were not needed to validate a marriage and attributed the “year and a day” event due to the lack of clergy in remoter parts of the land. This was entirely untrue, however as the evidence suggests that there was no such lack of clergy in those times and that Pennant was merely embellishing his tales through ignorance of facts

By the late 20th century the myth of handfasting as an ancient Celtic practice of a trial marriage for a year and a day seems to have taken hold as a well-established idea, despite no known historical evidence in existence. However, modern paganism has incorporated this ritual as part of its religious practice and ceremonies. Although the original term “handfasting” translates as “hand shake”, modern paganism has altered its practice to re-invent the term as the binding of the hands of the “wedded” couple to signify the joining of the two (often opposite hands to symbolise the lemniscate infinity sign):


So, although the original handfasting concept was based on rules and regulations dictated by the Catholic laws of the time and had a vastly different origin and meaning to that which we usually associate handfastings with today, I feel it does nothing to detract from what the intention of this “binding” of two people actually signifies in modern day paganism.

In many ways, the research I have discovered seems to show we have come full circle in our societal attitudes towards marriage. “Common law” marriages are now legally valid as a “form” of marriage when it comes to certain civil departments (think tax and DSS!) and more rights are being granted to couples who are living together as husband and wife, despite having no formal ceremony, in line with couples who have gone through an “official” state-recognised ceremony or contract. Scotland has recently introduced legislation that validates pagan weddings in the same way as any other civil or canonical wedding.

I suppose, in today’s pagan society, handfastings are really down to individual interpretation and significance. For some, it may be a form of announcement to the world of one’s intent to bind with another free from church dogma and government-imposed legislation. For others it may be a physical manifestation of various symbolically held beliefs – the “tying of the knot” to represent a spiritual binding with the person you love and hold dear, the declaration to the deities or elements of this world and other realms that one’s commitment to another transcends earthly boundaries, or even the inferred sexual union, that is often associated with the broomstick, transferred upon the couple in a physical union of male and female coming together as one by the “jumping of the broomstick”. This last reminds me of the sexual intercourse taking place after promise of consent described at the start of this article.

I’ve come to the conclusion that it doesn’t really matter if the handfastings we associate with today do or don’t have long-standing historical Celtic roots. What does matter is what it means to the individuals involved. As with any commitment ceremony, it is present and future intent that really counts, not past traditions or the values of others imposed onto future generations purely for the sake of appearances.

© Jo Matthews 2005

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